“I mean if there was authentic sex being shown on the screen like you were saying with actual…

“I mean if there was authentic sex being shown on the screen like you were saying with actual communication happening I would love to see that!”

I highly recommend Crashpad Series, Erika Lust, Make Love Not Porn, Jennifer Lyon Bell, and many more! This is becoming its own industry, which is really great to see. Though I would remember that having sex on film is still a business and it’s ok to like the sexual athleticism we see in less “authentic” depictions. I’m a huge fan of communication during porn (and as someone who reviewed it for a long time, I’ve learned to see body language and whispers in the ear as further, less explicit examples of that communication happening).

Also check out http://everydayfeminism.com/2013/09/feminist-porn/