5 things my cat has taught me about being a better girlfriend
The first living soul I sang a love song to was a Maine Coon cat named Pixel. I was 5 and I was determined that I was going to one day…
Kitty Stryker
I keep seeing other people in derby distancing themselves from reports of bullying that keep…
Does that seem like an ethical way to respond to people saying they felt harmed by behavior in the community?
Be Proud, Not Pushy: A Guide to Pride Etiquette
I’ve been going around the country talking about consent culture for years now, often in alternative communities — BDSM, polyamory, Burning…
Consent Culture: What it is, and why we need it
Consent culture has been at the front of my mind for a while now. I read constantly about bodily autonomy being challenged as it pertains…
Friendzoning Ordinances
I have some pretty cute and sexy friends with benefits. The benefits are varied- some of them can cook, others really enjoy going to cheesy…