Kitty Stryker

The Art of Asking, Not Telling

Years ago when I started doing consent culture work with alternative communities, I had a pretty good idea of what moves I felt needed to…

A Holiday Ask.

Tis the season where people talk about giving and charity and helping the less fortunate. It’s something that’s very close to my heart, as…

The Spirited Debate About Ghosting

I feel like I’m being haunted by the term “ghosting”. Every time I think all the hot takes have been taken, another article comes out…